Let's take the example of a Concert Pianist’s Practice. Every world-class pianist knows the secret—real artistry isn’t born in flawless performances, but in the deliberate struggle of practice. When a musician hits a wrong note, their brain doesn’t shut down—it supercharges. Neuroplasticity fires up, creating new neural pathways with each repetition. The struggle isn’t failure; it’s the brain’s upgrade mechanism.

“Can't you just tell him what to do?” That's what a friend once said to me, intrigued to know how I “do” with my patients. And frankly, it